**Provocative & Fascinating** The number one bestselling guide to fostering deeper connections at home, at work and throughout our lives. A guide to the art of truly knowing another person. A New and Unread book. **This book was a gift and the inside of the dust jacket has had the price cut out and a crease (see photo). I have reduced price well below rrp! Publisher ? : ? Random House Publication date ? : ? October 24, 2023 320 pages If you are going to care for someone, you must first understand them. If you're going to hire, marry, or befriend someone, you have to be able to see them. If you are going to work closely with someone, you have to be able to make them feel recognized and valued. As David Brooks observes, "The older I get, the more I come to the certainty that there is one skill at the center of any healthy family, company, classroom, community or nation: the ability to see each other, to know other people, to make them feel valued, heard and understood." And yet we humans don't do this well. All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, misunderstood. In How to Know a Person, Brooks sets out to help us to do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us. Driven by his trademark sense of curiosity, Brooks draws from the fields of psychology and neuroscience, and from the worlds of theatre, history, and education, to present a welcoming, hopeful, integrated approach to human connection. It helps readers become more understanding and considerate towards others and find the joy that comes from being seen. Along the way it offers a possible remedy for a society that is riven by fragmentation, hostility, and misperception. How can we look somebody in the eye and see something large in them, and in turn, see something larger in ourselves? How to Know a Person is for anyone searching for connection, seeking to understand and yearning to be understood. HAPPY TO COMBINE POSTAGE